"If I was planned, they would have been ready—but they weren't, so I'm a mistake."
How it sounds in your head: They were young or broke or not married. They talk about being 'unprepared' or 'not expecting this.' That lack of readiness means I'm an error in the timeline, an unwelcome surprise.
"But when the fullness of the time had come, God sent forth His Son, born of a woman, born under the law."
-- Galatians 4:4Enemy using human unreadiness to deny divine sovereignty over his arrival.
Parents' lack of preparation is mentioned often. He knows they weren't 'ready' by world standards. Lack of planning looks like lack of wanting.
John's parents were old and barren—biologically 'unprepared' and past reproductive years. Everyone knew they couldn't have kids. Yet God sent an angel, Elizabeth conceived, and John became the forerunner of the Messiah—Heaven's timing overruled human readiness.
I REFUSE the lie that unreadiness equals mistake. IT IS WRITTEN that Jesus came in the fullness of time when the world was unprepared. God's timing is perfect even when humans are not ready. My arrival was scheduled in Heaven before earth knew it needed me. IT IS WRITTEN that there is a time for every purpose under heaven, and MY time is NOW. The BARAK blessing was waiting for me before I was born—I am blessed, I am on time, I am the plan. Human unreadiness does not cancel divine sovereignty.
The Father was ready before the foundation of the world. He's been preparing a place and a purpose for you since eternity past, and your parents' lack of readiness doesn't change Heaven's perfect timing.