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Friendship Failure 40-49 (Forties)

"I'm not interesting enough for people to want to be my friend."

LIE: Not interesting. TRUTH: God SINGS over you—you captivate Him. His presence in you is magnetic. (Zeph 3:17)

Zephaniah 3:17 150 Read Truth →

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Invisible 16-18 (Late Teen)

"I'm so ordinary that I'll never stand out or be remembered"

LIE: I'm ordinary. TRUTH: You're fearfully and wonderfully made—marvelous (Psalm 139:14)

Psalm 139:14 113 Read Truth →

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Not Enough 25-29 (Late Twenties)

"I lack the beauty, charm, and presence that make women valuable and noticed."

LIE: I'm not beautiful. TRUTH: You are ALL FAIR with NO SPOT—altogether beautiful to Him. (Song 4:7)

Song of Solomon 4:7 111 Read Truth →

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Not Enough 16-18 (Late Teen)

"I don't have the body, face, or style that gets noticed—I'll never be the girl who turns heads."

LIE: I'm not beautiful enough. TRUTH: You are all fair with no spot—Song 4:7. He calls you flawless NOW.

Song of Solomon 4:7 108 Read Truth →

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Past Defines Me 30-39 (Thirties)

"I divorced, so I missed God's will for my life and forfeited His best."

LIE: Divorce forfeited God's best. TRUTH: Romans 8:1—NO condemnation. The woman at the well had 5 divorces; Jesus made her the first evangelist.

Romans 8:1 107 Read Truth →

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Singleness as Curse 80-89 (Eighties)

"I must not have been pretty enough, thin enough, or feminine enough to attract a husband."

LIE: Not pretty enough. TRUTH: Christ says you're ALTOGETHER beautiful with NO FLAW—His opinion creates reality (Song 4:7)

Song of Solomon 4:7 106 Read Truth →

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Performance Christianity 25-29 (Late Twenties)

"My body is too much or not enough to be worthy of love."

LIE: Body determines worth. TRUTH: Fearfully and wonderfully made—Ps 139:14. You're a marvel, not a mistake.

Psalm 139:14 105 Read Truth →

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Singleness as Curse 40-49 (Forties)

"The good Christian men are all taken; only broken ones are left"

LIE: All good men are taken; only broken ones left. TRUTH: God does exceedingly abundantly above all we think (Eph 3:20)—He creates, not rations.

Ephesians 3:20 99 Read Truth →

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Invisible 40-49 (Forties)

"I'm so ordinary that I blend into the walls. There's nothing special about me worth noticing."

LIE: I'm too ordinary. TRUTH: God set you in the body exactly as HE pleased—intentional design. 1 Cor 12:18

1 Corinthians 12:18 97 Read Truth →

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Singleness as Curse 13-15 (Early Teen)

"My body isn't attractive enough for anyone to want me romantically."

LIE: Not attractive enough. TRUTH: You are altogether beautiful with no spot in you. (Song 4:7)

Song of Solomon 4:7 84 Read Truth →

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