Results for "fear of being unprepared"

Unforgivable Sin 19-24 (Young Adult)

"I questioned God's goodness during my miscarriage and committed blasphemy."

LIE: I blasphemed by questioning God. TRUTH: Job accused God for 35 chapters and God called him righteous. Ps 34:18

Psalm 34:18 112 Read Truth →

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God's Disappointment 10-12 (Pre-Teen)

"God is mad that I'm starting to care about how I look and what boys think"

LIE: God is mad I care about beauty. TRUTH: You are altogether BEAUTIFUL - He MADE you so! SoS 4:7

Song of Solomon 4:7 112 Read Truth →

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Ministry Burnout 19-24 (Young Adult)

"I've failed so badly in ministry that I've disqualified myself from ever being used again."

LIE: I'm disqualified forever. TRUTH: God restores the years the locust ate—grace abounds MORE than sin. (Joel 2:25; Rom 5:20)

Joel 2:25 112 Read Truth →

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Ministry Burnout 40-49 (Forties)

"If I rest, the ministry will fall apart and people will suffer."

LIE: Rest means failure. TRUTH: God gives His beloved sleep—exhaustion is vain, rest is obedience. Psalm 127:2

Psalm 127:2 112 Read Truth →

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Wasted Years 60-69 (Sixties)

"I gave my youth to raising kids and now have nothing left for me."

LIE: I have nothing left. TRUTH: More comes from the desolate—Isaiah 54:1. Second half > first half.

Isaiah 54:1 112 Read Truth →

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Youth Idolatry 50-59 (Fifties)

"Younger leaders don't want me on the team; I'd just slow them down."

LIE: I'd slow them down. TRUTH: Older women are called to TEACH and admonish the young. Titus 2:3-5

Titus 2:3-5 112 Read Truth →

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Rushing God 80-89 (Eighties)

"God gave me a long life, I should be grateful instead of asking for more."

LIE: Asking for more = ungrateful. TRUTH: He does ABUNDANTLY above all we ASK - Ephesians 3:20. Keep asking.

Ephesians 3:20 112 Read Truth →

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Healing Ended with Apostles 25-29 (Late Twenties)

"We have medicine now. God expects you to use doctors, not ask for supernatural healing."

LIE: Use medicine, don't expect miracles. TRUTH: God heals ALL your diseases—He's not limited to natural means. Psalm 103:3

Psalm 103:3 112 Read Truth →

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Diagnosis Death Sentence 16-18 (Late Teen)

"Chronic means permanent; I need to accept this and learn to live with it."

LIE: Chronic means permanent. TRUTH: Man sick 38 YEARS, healed IMMEDIATELY by one word from Jesus. (John 5:5-9)

Joel 2:25 112 Read Truth →

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Infertility & Miscarriage 80-89 (Eighties)

"God gave me other blessings instead of children, so I shouldn't complain."

LIE: Be grateful for substitutes. TRUTH: God supplies ALL needs; His resources aren't limited. Philippians 4:19

Philippians 4:19 112 Read Truth →

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Imposter Syndrome 40-49 (Forties)

"My success is built on exaggeration and selling myself better than I actually am."

LIE: I'm selling an exaggeration. TRUTH: God's thoughts toward me are for good and hope. (Jer 29:11)

Jeremiah 29:11 112 Read Truth →

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Imposter Syndrome 90+ (Nineties Plus)

"I'm about to face God and discover my entire life of service was just performance and pride."

LIE: My service was pride, not love. TRUTH: He who began the work will complete it—and it's almost done. Phil 1:6

Philippians 1:6 112 Read Truth →

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Past Defines Me 50-59 (Fifties)

"My divorce disqualifies me from being used by God or respected in ministry."

LIE: Divorce disqualifies me. TRUTH: Woman with 5 divorces became 1st evangelist (John 4:39). Your mess is your MESSAGE.

John 4:39 112 Read Truth →

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Past Defines Me 90+ (Nineties Plus)

"I divorced. I broke a covenant. That disqualifies me from being fully used by God."

LIE: Divorce disqualifies me. TRUTH: God invites the divorced to return—you're qualified by grace. (Jeremiah 3:1)

Jeremiah 3:1 112 Read Truth →

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No Spiritual Authority 40-49 (Forties)

"The enemy is too strong for me; I don't know enough to fight him."

LIE: The enemy is too strong. TRUTH: He who is in you is GREATER than he who is in the world. (1 John 4:4)

1 John 4:4 112 Read Truth →

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Disqualified 80-89 (Eighties)

"My abortion disqualifies me from God's blessing and from being called a godly woman."

LIE: Abortion disqualifies you. TRUTH: Isaiah 1:18 - Scarlet sins become WHITE AS SNOW. Paul murdered Christians and became chief apostle instantly.

Isaiah 1:18 112 Read Truth →

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Wrong Personality 80-89 (Eighties)

"My quiet, reserved personality is wrong. I should have been more outgoing and bold like other women."

LIE: My reserved personality is wrong. TRUTH: God intentionally made you quiet to hear what loud voices miss. (Psalm 139:14)

Psalm 139:14 112 Read Truth →

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Cultural/Racial Identity 25-29 (Late Twenties)

"If I succeed beyond my community's level, I'll be accused of abandoning them or thinking I'm better."

LIE: Success means abandoning my people. TRUTH: Joseph's promotion saved his accusers—Gen 50:20. Elevation creates pathways.

Genesis 50:20 112 Read Truth →

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Divorce Shame 16-18 (Late Teen)

"I have to choose sides between my parents or I'm being disloyal to the wronged one."

LIE: I must choose sides. TRUTH: Let God's peace rule your heart - you're the child, not the judge. (Colossians 3:15)

Colossians 3:15 112 Read Truth →

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Dating Hopelessness 25-29 (Late Twenties)

"Christian men don't actually pursue. I'll have to settle for lukewarm faith."

LIE: Christian men don't pursue. TRUTH: God pours out blessing with no room to contain it. (Malachi 3:10)

Malachi 3:10 112 Read Truth →

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