Results for "family fear"

Addiction as Identity 60-69 (Sixties)

"Everyone remembers who I used to be. I'll always be 'the addict' to them."

LIE: Always 'the addict' to others. TRUTH: Do NOT remember former things - God does a NEW thing (Isa 43:18-19). You're NEW!

Isaiah 43:18-19 112 Read Truth →

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Energy & Vitality 80-89 (Eighties)

"I don't have strength to do what needs doing anymore."

LIE: Too weak to matter. TRUTH: 'My strength is made perfect in weakness'—power shows up HERE. 2 Cor 12:9

2 Corinthians 12:9 112 Read Truth →

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Generational Poverty 13-15 (Early Teen)

"I should just accept my family's poverty and be grateful for what little we have."

LIE: Accept poverty gratefully. TRUTH: God does exceedingly abundantly above all you think—Ephesians 3:20

Ephesians 3:20 112 Read Truth →

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Generational Poverty 16-18 (Late Teen)

"Rich people are a different breed—I wasn't born with those advantages."

LIE: I lack family advantages. TRUTH: Jesus became poor so you could be rich—you're in the wealthiest family now. (2 Cor 8:9)

2 Corinthians 8:9 112 Read Truth →

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Generational Poverty 50-59 (Fifties)

"My dad failed financially, his dad failed—it's just in my DNA."

LIE: DNA determines destiny. TRUTH: You're a new creation—old passed away, all things new. (2 Cor 5:17)

2 Corinthians 5:17 112 Read Truth →

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Generational Poverty 70-79 (Seventies)

"Every generation of my family worked hard and stayed poor—hard work doesn't change anything for us."

LIE: Hard work kept family poor. TRUTH: The Lord commands blessing on all you set your hand to. Deut 28:8

Deuteronomy 28:8 112 Read Truth →

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Generational Poverty 70-79 (Seventies)

"My wife and I will end up in assisted living broke, a burden on everyone we love."

LIE: I'll end up broke and a burden. TRUTH: The righteous are not forsaken—God provides in old age. Ps 37:25

Psalm 37:25 112 Read Truth →

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Debt & Bankruptcy 13-15 (Early Teen)

"My future is ruined because I'll inherit my parents' bad credit and debt."

LIE: I inherit parents' bad credit. TRUTH: God does a NEW THING in my generation - NOW. Isaiah 43:18-19

Isaiah 43:18-19 112 Read Truth →

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Job Loss & Unemployment 25-29 (Late Twenties)

"I can't provide for a family like this. I'm not marriage material unemployed."

LIE: I'm not marriage material unemployed. TRUTH: I'm Abraham's seed - the BARAK blessing makes me provider by covenant. (Gal 3:29)

Genesis 24:35-36 112 Read Truth →

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Job Loss & Unemployment 50-59 (Fifties)

"I'll lose everything—the house, the car, my family's security. Financial disaster is coming."

LIE: I'll lose everything. TRUTH: IT IS WRITTEN - My God SHALL supply ALL needs according to HIS riches. (Phil 4:19)

Philippians 4:19 112 Read Truth →

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Bad Financial Decisions 50-59 (Fifties)

"I should have listened to my wife about money. This is my fault for being foolish."

LIE: Financial mistakes make me foolish leader. TRUTH: NO weapon formed shall PROSPER. Heritage of servants. Isa 54:17

Isaiah 54:17 112 Read Truth →

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Poverty Mindset 10-12 (Pre-Teen)

"If I'm struggling financially, it's because I have hidden sin or lack faith."

LIE: I'm broke because I sinned or lack faith. TRUTH: Hardship isn't always punishment. I'm righteous by Jesus's blood. God supplies all needs. (John ...

John 9:3 112 Read Truth →

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Bad Financial Decisions 90+ (Nineties Plus)

"I was generous when I should have saved, and now I'm the foolish virgin without oil at the end."

LIE: Generosity = foolish unpreparedness. TRUTH: Proverbs 11:24-25—Those who scatter increase more; generous souls are made RICH, not poor.

Proverbs 11:24-25 112 Read Truth →

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Secret Sin Shame 10-12 (Pre-Teen)

"If anyone knew what I've been watching or thinking, I'd be kicked out of church and my family forever."

LIE: Secret sin makes me unredeemable. TRUTH: Jesus paid for sins you can't remember and haven't confessed. Psalm 103:12 - as far as east from west.

Psalm 103:12 112 Read Truth →

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Secret Sin Shame 16-18 (Late Teen)

"I'm attracted to the same sex and if I'm honest about it, I'll lose my family and my faith community."

LIE: My orientation separates me from God. TRUTH: Romans 8:38-39—NOTHING can separate you from His love. Nothing.

Romans 8:38-39 112 Read Truth →

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Ministry Burnout 60-69 (Sixties)

"I've sinned too much in ministry to be used powerfully by God now."

LIE: My sin disqualified me. TRUTH: God's gifts and calling are irrevocable—the blood covers you completely. No condemnation. Rom 11:29, 8:1

Romans 11:29 112 Read Truth →

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Too Late 90+ (Nineties Plus)

"You're dying alone—you've become a burden no one wants."

LIE: Dying alone, unwanted burden. TRUTH: God will NEVER leave or forsake you; He carries you (Heb 13:5, Isa 46:4)

Hebrews 13:5 112 Read Truth →

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Too Late 80-89 (Eighties)

"I missed my chance to restore broken relationships—those people are gone or too hurt."

LIE: Too late for reconciliation. TRUTH: God breathes life into dead relationships—RESTORES years locusts ate. Ezek 37:3, Joel 2:25

Ezekiel 37:3 112 Read Truth →

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Too Old 80-89 (Eighties)

"I wasted my life on work that didn't matter, and I have nothing to show for it."

LIE: Life wasted. TRUTH: All things work together for good—nothing wasted, everything preparation. Rom 8:28

Romans 8:28 112 Read Truth →

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Rushing God 80-89 (Eighties)

"God's timing is too slow for my body. I'll be dead before He moves."

LIE: Body failing too fast. TRUTH: The SET TIME has come - Psalm 102:13. Widow fed at last meal - 1 Kings 17.

Psalm 102:13 112 Read Truth →

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