"My sex drive is dying—this is just what happens to older men."
How it sounds in your head: I'm not like I was at 30. The desire isn't there like it used to be. My wife probably doesn't care anyway. This is normal for my age—doctors expect it.
"Therefore Sarah laughed within herself, saying, 'After I have grown old, shall I have pleasure, my lord being old also?'"
-- Genesis 18:12Enemy/world: Medical system normalizes dysfunction; culture mocks older men's sexuality.
Commercials for ED meds target your age group. Friends make jokes about it. The doctor offers pills instead of expecting wholeness. Your body has changed.
After Sarah's death, Abraham married Keturah and fathered SIX more sons—well past 100 years old. His reproductive vitality wasn't limited by age because covenant blessing sustained his body.
I REFUSE the lie that my virility must die. IT IS WRITTEN: Abraham at 100 fathered Isaac, then SIX more sons after that. IT IS WRITTEN: By His stripes I WAS healed. I am Abraham's seed—the BARAK blessing covers every part of my body. Christ redeemed me from the curse of dysfunction. My body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. I am blessed in my coming in and going out, in EVERY area of life.
The Father isn't embarrassed by your desire or your body. He designed intimacy and calls it GOOD. He's running toward you with the same resurrection power that raised Christ, ready to quicken your mortal body in EVERY way.