"My family is poor, so I'll always be poor too. It's just how life is."
How it sounds in your head: I see my parents stress about bills and hear them say we can't afford things. It feels like this is just our reality, and nothing I do will change it. Maybe some people are meant to have money and some aren't, and we're the ones who aren't.
"Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us (for it is written, 'Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree'), that the blessing of Abraham might come upon the Gentiles in Christ Jesus, that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith."
-- Galatians 3:13-14Source: Generational curse and worldly lie that poverty is hereditary—this ignores that Christ BROKE every generational curse at the cross.
At 10-12, your world is still very much shaped by your parents' reality. If money is tight at home, it feels permanent and inevitable, like you're inheriting their struggle because that's just how things work in your family.
Mephibosheth was crippled, in hiding, living in poverty in Lo Debar ('place of no pasture')—then King David restored ALL of Saul's land to him and gave him a place at the king's table FOREVER (2 Samuel 9:7-11). One encounter with royalty broke generational loss instantly.
I REFUSE the lie that my family's poverty defines my future. IT IS WRITTEN in Galatians 3:13-14 that Christ has redeemed me from the curse and that the BLESSING OF ABRAHAM has come upon me through Jesus. I am not bound by generational patterns; I am FREE by the blood of the Lamb. IT IS WRITTEN in 2 Corinthians 5:17 that if anyone is in Christ, they are a NEW creation—old things have passed away. I am Abraham's seed through Christ, and the BARAK blessing is mine by COVENANT. My family's past does not determine my future; Jesus' finished work does.
Your Father sees you in Lo Debar—the place of lack—and He's sending the King's chariot to bring you to the royal table. You're not stuck in your family's story; you're grafted into HIS family, and in His house, there's always more than enough.