"God is waiting for me to get my spending under control before He'll bless me financially."
How it sounds in your head: If I'm honest, I've made dumb money choices. God's probably waiting for me to prove I can handle it responsibly before He'll open doors. I need to earn His trust back.
"But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
-- Romans 5:8Source: Religious works-teaching that makes God's blessing conditional on financial behavior.
Dave Ramsey and every financial sermon she's heard said stewardship comes first, then blessing. She feels guilty about the Amazon purchases and thinks God is withholding until she gets disciplined.
Abraham LIED to Pharaoh about Sarah being his sister to save his own skin—a cowardly, faithless move. God plagued Pharaoh to defend Abraham the liar and sent him away RICHER. The blessing wasn't based on Abraham's integrity.
I REFUSE the lie that God is waiting for perfect stewardship. IT IS WRITTEN that while I was still a sinner, Christ died for me—He didn't wait for me to clean up first. The BARAK blessing protected Abraham even when he lied—it's covenant, not behavior. IT IS WRITTEN that I'm blessed coming in and going out, in the city and the field. My Father isn't withholding until I prove myself. I'm blessed because I'm IN CHRIST, and that's enough. I receive financial breakthrough NOW.
Your Father isn't standing at the door with a spreadsheet of your spending, arms crossed. He's running toward you with the robe and ring, throwing a party while you still smell like bad financial decisions.