"I never tithed properly so God won't provide now that I need Him."
How it sounds in your head: I gave when I could, but I wasn't consistent. I wasn't a faithful steward. Now that I'm desperate, why would God show up? I didn't hold up my end of the bargain.
"But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
-- Romans 5:8Religion perverted covenant into contract, making God's provision conditional on human performance.
She's heard a lifetime of sermons tying blessing to tithing faithfulness, and her irregular giving history feels like proof God owes her nothing.
He was crippled, hiding, had done NOTHING for David, and was from a fallen house. David restored everything Saul owned to him and gave him a permanent place at the king's table - pure grace based on covenant, not merit.
I REFUSE the lie that my provision depends on perfect giving. IT IS WRITTEN that while I was still a sinner, Christ died for me - meaning blessing comes from HIS performance, not mine. The BARAK blessing Abraham received wasn't based on his giving record. IT IS WRITTEN: Christ redeemed me from the curse that I might receive the BLESSING OF ABRAHAM through faith. I am blessed in my coming in and going out, not because I tithed perfectly, but because I'm IN CHRIST. My Father runs toward me with provision, no receipts required.
Your Father isn't an accountant reviewing your giving history. He's the Father who saw the Prodigal from far off and RAN - while the son still smelled like pigs and had squandered everything.