"God must regret creating me since even my own family didn't fully want me."
How it sounds in your head: If your earthly father was ambivalent or absent, how could your Heavenly Father be any different? You project human rejection onto God, assuming He tolerates you at best, regrets you at worst.
"The Lord has appeared of old to me, saying: 'Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you.'"
-- Jeremiah 31:3Source: Enemy using earthly father wounds to distort the image of the Heavenly Father, creating a God of regret instead of delight.
You've only known conditional love or outright rejection from authority figures. Believing God delights in you feels like wishful thinking when no one else seemed to.
Used, pregnant, then REJECTED and sent into the desert to die by the family that used her. God met her there, saw her, named her son, and she called Him 'the God who SEES me'—the discarded one became the SEEN one.
I REFUSE the lie that God regrets creating me. IT IS WRITTEN that He has loved me with an EVERLASTING love and drawn me with lovingkindness. God does not regret what He creates. IT IS WRITTEN that I am His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus, and His works are marvelous. My earthly father's absence or rejection does not reflect my Heavenly Father's heart. I stand in the BARAK blessing, chosen before the foundation of the world. God does not tolerate me—He TREASURES me. He does not regret me—He REJOICES over me. I am fully known and fully loved by the God who sees me.
The Father is saying: 'I have NEVER regretted you—not for one millisecond of your existence. Earthly fathers fail, but I am the Father who runs, who celebrates, who sings. You are not My regret; you are My beloved.'