"All the good Christian guys are taken or not interested in someone like me."
How it sounds in your head: You scroll through engagement posts wondering what those girls have that you don't. Every guy at church is either taken, gay, or treats you like a sister. You're watching your window close while everyone else gets their love story.
"You shall no longer be termed Forsaken, nor shall your land any more be termed Desolate; but you shall be called Hephzibah, and your land Beulah; for the LORD delights in you, and your land shall be married."
-- Isaiah 62:4-5Enemy whisper using comparison and scarcity mindset to make you feel overlooked and undesirable.
Your feed is literally filled with engagement rings and you're still getting 'left on read.' The ratio at church is terrible and the single guys seem to want the worship leader type, which isn't you.
Rebekah was drawing water at a well doing ordinary life when Abraham's servant showed up with camels and gold. Before she even finished her daily chore, her entire destiny arrived - she went from single to engaged to traveling to meet Isaac in ONE CHAPTER.
I REFUSE the lie that all the good ones are taken. IT IS WRITTEN that I am called Hephzibah - 'My Delight Is In Her' - and my land shall be married. My Father delights in me and He is not scrambling or worried about my timeline. IT IS WRITTEN in Psalm 84:11 that no good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly. I am the seed of Abraham through Christ, heir according to promise, and the BARAK blessing over my life includes covenant relationships. The same God who brought Rebekah her Isaac in one divine moment is writing my story right now.
Your Father is running toward you with the perfect love story, not because you're skinny enough or spiritual enough, but because He delights in you. While you're just living your life like Rebekah at the well, He's already orchestrating the divine collision that will take your breath away.